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Sex on her mind
11 Jun 2008, 0049 hrs IST,
AYANDRALI DUTTA , TNN
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Picture
this: Champagne, candlelight, a man at the door who craves commitment. Does it
sound like every woman’s ultimate fantasy?
For ages the world has been
trying hard to figure out what’s going on in a woman's head? What does a
woman want: the quintessential question? The answer: champagne, candlelight, a
man at the door...most of the times. The stuff most women fantasize about.
It’s not hard to
understand actually...women do fantasize. A woman's fantasies are certainly not
limited. All have their own peccadilloes. If your body hasn't been called
"perky" since Gymboree, in fantasy you can give yourself permission to swing
naked from a crystal chandelier. Here's another favourite: a rustic cabin in the
woods, pink Champagne and Benicio Del Toro. The reality: a cramped studio in the
city, Diet Snapple and a guy who hogs the remote. Don't get me wrong; I've got
nothing against the keeper of my remote. It’s just my fantasy and reality
never find common ground. But we still continue to fantasize. And yes, if it
involves sex, it’s all the better.
Nothing beats a good sex
fantasy. Even researchers agree. Linda Wolfe a famous author studied a sample of
15,000 women aged 18-34 years, and less than three percent said they never
fantasize. It was seen that females are more likely to prefer erotica with a
"softer," more imaginative side than the "harder," more explicit forms preferred
by males.
Dr. Nimish Seth,
psychologist says: “There’s no such thing as an inappropriate
fantasy. A lesbian fantasy is not proof that you're gay; a dominatrix fantasy
doesn't mean you ought to run right out and invest in a pair of leather pants.
Whether you choose to explore your fantasies—however mild or wild they may
be—is up to you. But by all means don't hesitate to let your imagination
jump-start your body into a sexier sex life. Sometimes a girl needs a jolt of
adventure—if only in her daydreams”.
Types of
sexual fantasies
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